Reflections

It’s Not the Thing, It’s What We Make of It

“When you are distressed by an external thing, it’s not the thing itself that troubles you, but only your judgment of it. And you can wipe this out at a moment’s notice.”
Marcus Aurelius, Meditations 8.47

Every hardship carries two parts: what happens, and what we decide it means.
The first is beyond our control; the second is ours entirely.
Our reactions — not the events themselves — create much of our suffering.

Faith, Reason, and the Modern Divide

In an age of outrage, confusion, and herd mentality, Christianity anchors the heart while Stoicism steadies the mind. Together, they offer a blueprint for sanity and virtue in a polarized world.

Accepting Providence: Fate, Trust, and the Thread of Causes

The Thread of Causes

Marcus Aurelius writes in Meditations 5.8:

“Whatever happens to you was prepared for you from all eternity, and the thread of causes was spun from the beginning.”

It’s a staggering image. Marcus sees life as a tapestry already woven: what we face today is not an accident but a strand in an immense design. To the Stoic, this design is governed by logos — the rational order of the universe. Things do not simply happen; they unfold, linked by necessity.